Sometimes taking off the gloves is all you need to tweak your training. I write about my adventures and what I am learning in my blogs, and it is amazing how much I still learn every day. Sometimes I can’t see it right away, sometimes it takes days like this where I sit down and reflect on my week of training.
So today I am thinking about my training, and remember back to a day in the week where my instructor is telling me for probably the 100,000,000th time, probably more, to not flare my elbows and keep my guard tight when I have my hands up covering my face.
Often times I hear the advice, and internalize it, and try to fix it right away. If I don’t understand I stop and ask. However, for this I tighten my arms I think, and keep going.
Then she says, “stop, next round I want you to use my MMA gloves.”
The difference between the MMA gloves and boxing gloves is:
- The weight – (boxing gloves tend to be 12 oz to 16 oz), the weight slows down your punches, and helps your body work more
- The size – think big balloons on your hand verses slightly padded leather gloves
- The protection for your hands and your opponents face – With less padding on the hands, if I am lazy and hit wrong with the MMA gloves I can break my hand, I can also do a lot more damage to my opponent because there is less padding to dissipate my blows.
Mostly she is using it for its size. The profile is much different on the MMA they have less surface area and the tactile difference when I put them on my temples for my guard is completely different.
It was a moment of genius she had when recommending them. I clearly was struggling to do what she asked and she thought of a different way to get my body to ingrain that muscle memory.
What I learned was the boxing gloves are huge in comparison… Duh right, but hear me out. We use boxing gloves for everything, they are usually 12 oz to 16 oz depending on the gloves. They are great for weight, and they soften the blow when you punch your opponent. They protect your hands from breaking on your opponent.
They are also huge. So when I was told to bring my elbows in, I was not understanding because I was keeping them on my face and rotating them in, but the gloves were so big I could not feel it. Just switching up my training with the MMA gloves has helped me not only see what she was talking about but adjust my boxing gloves to mimic the same feeling with them on.
The dangerous part was I had to be very careful about knuckle placement so I did not break the little bones in my hand with the MMA gloves, I also had to be careful with my training partner, because they are not padded like the boxing gloves. One well placed hit and he would have been knocked out.
So we trained slow and deliberate, working on form and flow. I took the power out of my strikes.
I literally took my gloves off, so I could train in a different way. So I could physically feel the changes my instructor wanted me to do.
I love that the little tweaks we are doing is what is going to make my form and flow better and better. I don’t always see it, but every day on the mat, is a day I am improving even if by fractions.
Maintenance week 4
This week went off the rails for me. I was going to just do another maintenance but ended up letting myself indulge a little more than normal. It was a week where I had to take a few days off to let my back heal up. I have scoliosis and have days weeks where things get out of whack.
For the last three days I did not focus on getting the protein in, or even hitting my macros. It was Mother’s Day weekend and I just kinda let myself have a break.
I noticed I did not even come close to my protein intake, I did better on my carbs intake, and my fat intake was on average low.
What this means to me when I try to intuitively eat, or just eat the way I want to, I lean more toward carbs, eat lower fats, and little protein.
| MACRO AVERAGES | ||||||||||
| Day 1 | Day 2 | Day 3 | Day 4 | Day 5 | Day 6 | Day 7 | Average | Goal | Difference | |
| Protein | 105 | 117 | 148 | 200 | 98 | 78 | 116 | 123.142857 | 210 | 86.85714286 |
| Carbs | 178 | 242 | 234 | 290 | 219 | 158 | 257 | 225.428571 | 245 | 19.57142857 |
| Fat | 97 | 63 | 114 | 107 | 50 | 46 | 70 | 78.1428571 | 109 | 30.85714286 |
| Calories | 2005 | 2003 | 2554 | 2923 | 1718 | 1358 | 2122 | 2097.57143 | 2801 | 703.4285714 |
Monday 05/03/2021 Workout: 1 hour run and upper body weight lifting

This post is for the people who have reached out to me. Saying I have helped them in some way. I am so happy to have been able to help them.
I am no where near perfect. I have days where I don’t want to do my workout. I hate pictures of me, I see every flaw. I see stretch marks, from the time my body grew and cared for my babies. I have fat cause I like eating bad for me things like cookies, and pastries.
I am working every day to be the best person I can be. I am working every day to try not to compare myself to everyone else. There is no one else like me. I am genetically diverse. I am half Japanese, other half is Irish and Cherokee.
I am never going to look pretty when working out. I get red when my body is working hard.
But I am working, I am trying, and I am dedicated.
I am not perfect, but I am constant trying to be the best me. I am going to celebrate my 42nd revolution around the sun this year. So I am not a youngster. I am flawed and imperfect but I am trying.
Thank you all for the kind words, the awesome stories you have told me. Thank you for letting me know that/if I am an inspiration to you.
Know when I say if I can do it, I truly believe you can do it too. Just keep trying. You are going to fall down, the important part is getting back up!
Workout:
1 mile run
Upper Body : Chest, Back, Triceps
1) dumbbell one armed bench row – each side reps- 8, 8, 8, 8, 6, 6
2) barbell dead lift – reps – 8, 8, 8, 8, 8
3) resistance band narrow grip pull down – reps – 8, 8, 8, 8
4) dumbbell incline bench press – reps – 10, 10, 10, 10
5) dumbbell incline chest fly – reps – 10, 10, 10
6) diamond push ups – reps – 12, 12, 12, 12
Tuesday 05/04/2021 Training: 1 hour of Muay Thai
We worked the same drills as Thursday. However, I am at a level where we have to make small adjustments. Where I literally have to tighten my slip so my opponent can’t throw an overhand into my head.
It’s repetitive but necessary. Toward the end of three solid minutes of slipping the cross. I was keeping it tight. I was not throwing my head to the side.
When the gloves come off (quite literally) it gets me hyper focused. Practicing slipping the cross when you training partner does not have gloves on and if they make contact will give you a shiner, gets me paying attention.
Parry the cross slip tight
Same for kicks with intent those will get you to lateral quickly. Don’t want to go home with a limp. Not being there when a strike comes in is a great defense.
Thank you Khun kru Krysta!
Thursday 05/06/2021 Training: 1 hour of Muay Thai training
So like I have mentioned before, unless it’s a new drill ( strikes strung together in a different way) myself and a couple of other students know the drills. We know the basic rules, and if called upon to throw any number of strike we can.
However, and this is a big ‘however’ there is always room for improvement. I am always going to be working on flowing, polishing my form, and working defense with counter strikes.
1) Today was the day I was working keeping my guard tight together, but loose at the same time.
2) today I worked on turning over my hook, snatching it back, and keeping it on my face till the the next bunches of punches.
Khun Kru Krysta had an ingenious idea. To have me wear mma gloves or bag gives. They have a smaller profile, so it helps with my muscle memory.
We worked slow because not only can the mma gloves help knock a person out ( less padding), but because the can also damage your hand. If you don’t throw the punch correctly. You hit the outer Knuckles and you run the risk damaging or breaking your hand.
The gloves helped me keep my hands and arms tighter in my guard, helped me to understand where my fist were. Because the 12 oz gloves have so much ch padding you loose sense of where your hands are in relation to your face. Which I need to work on.
Thank you khun kru Krysta!
Slow and deliberate was the way to drill. to fix my form. I need to raise my elbow and make sure I am punching with my first two knuckles. We will speed up when my form is looking better.
Saturday 05/08/2021 Muay Thai : 1 hour of Muay Thai Practice
Went to train. I had to take it slow. My back was hurting went to chiropractor yesterday.
Hip and lower back not happy with me. So I took it slow and worked the forms. My hip is joint was pinching my sciatic nerve which messed up my back a little with my scoliosis.
Gonna not skip weight lifting today and tomorrow let my back rest. Then I will be back at it.
Do what you can, work around your injuries. Life is gonna happen and you gotta pick yourself back up. Keep going.
And that is it for the past week. I took three days off of training because my scoliosis and hip was pinching my sciatic nerve. I let myself take a break from trying to meet macros. I let myself have a good mothers day.
I am back at it today.
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